|Access||The time kids spend with the parent who does not have custody. Access can also include a parent's right to receive information about the children's health, education and welfare.|
|Child Support||Money that one parent gives the other parent to help pay for the things that their children need.|
|Common-Iaw||When two people live together as a couple without getting married.|
|Divorce||A legal action two people take to end their marriage.|
|Joint Custody||When both parents share authority over the child and make decisions about the child together. Any living arrangement is possible.|
|Marriage||A formal agreement that legally recognizes two people in a relationship as a couple.|
|Mediation||A process for resolving conflicts between people, using a mediator to find a solution that meets everyone's needs.|
|Mediator||A person who has been specially trained to act as a neutral third party in helping people resolve conflicts.|
|Separation||When someone in a marriage or common law relationship informs the other person that their relationship is over. This is often the point when partners stop living together.|
|Sole Custody||When one parent is solely responsible for making decisions for and on behalf of the child. This parent may also provide the majority of childcare, but any living arrangement is possible.|
|Separation Agreement||A contract between two people who have separated, stating, among other things, where their children will live and how they will divide their property.|
Ideally, your parents will make the decisions together about who you will live with and how that will work. Your opinion should be taken into account.
Common-law parents — parents who chose to live together without getting married — don't have to get a divorce, because there is no marriage to end. But they do need to decide what will happen to their children and how they will divide their property.
When two people have been living together and they decide not to live together anymore, they are separated. However, when married people separate, their marriage has not yet ended. They have to get a divorce to legally end a marriage. Common-law couples don't have to get a divorce, because there is no marriage to end.